JRK's small (relatively speaking) wish list

From the desk of Jeffrey R. Kuntzelman aka "Admiral Blind Man" ©2019

I'm just going on record....

It'd be nice to win even a small amount of money.  Like, say, $100k.  I mean, I'm not greedy.  I just don't enjoy being broke most of the time.  I don't think I'm even that bad asking the universe for a little help.  You know?  I just want to make enough to get by while having a little extra to go do the things I would like to do with friends.  Or even certain family relatives.  Or both, in some cases.

That doesn't make me a bad person, does it?  Just enough money to go out & do what I love for a living, make enough money to have some fun, and have a little extra to have some fun with friends & some family members/relatives. 

And no, I'm not even considering stealing the money.  I want to either make it legally with steady gigs (once I'm proficient enough), or win it legally.  Either way, I just want enough to live comfortably.  You know?  Enough to pay bills, and have enough left to go do some fun stuff with friends from time to time.  Like mini-golf games, bowling, or hittin' up a movie or two.  Just so I'm not stuck at home on any given Friday night or any weekend day's night. 

Is that a lot to ask?  I don't think it is, but I've been known to be wrong.

I guess what I want, in no particular order I suppose is....

1. Have enough money to pay off my bills, both past, and present bills, i.e. the usual stuff like rent, electricity, cable, and phone, but also stuff that is still outstanding like all of my hospital stays, ambulance rides, etc.  Pretty sure that plus a bunch of other stuff now totals over $25k.

2) After paying off all those bills, having enough left over to go do some fun stuff with a friend or two (Tom, Shannon, even my friend Jamie and/or my friend Chris from Las Vegas) like going on a road trip or something to the east coast would be fucking awesome.

3. Eventually finding my future Ms. Right.  The woman of my dreams.  Well, not that I dream about her specifically, so it's not like I have a specific person in mind, but basically a woman who likes doing a lot of the same stuff I like to do like play video games, play some music (playing guitar, piano, or the drums would be a total plus, and if she's a PC phan, that's even better)!  A woman who is super smart, compassionate, & understands that my picky eating habits are NOT within my control.  Period.  Somebody I could spend hours talking to, and then if we happen to have a day of no talking to each other, we have that kind of time off, and then when we start talking again, it's like we can pick up where we left off without missing a beat.  As my friend Jamie Thomas once put it, somebody who would leave me alone most of the time, but would at least check in on me every once in a while for supoort, or if I needed something, i.e. rides to my doctors, maybe even accompany me to those doctor visits, and be taking notes so I don't forget anything.  And, of course, I would do the same for her.

4. If this woman, this Ms. Right (possibly a future Mrs. "Right"-Kuntzelman" if she does exist, I would hope she doesn't let me ever give up on my dreams, doesn't let me give up on my music, and certainly doesn't let me give up on my writing either.  In exchange, I'd do all I can to support her efforts in whatever it may be to her liking.  Maybe she also shares an interest in writing, either in general fiction or does some songwriting too.  Maybe she's a musician as well, and can complement my playing piano or the drums, or maybe we both are learning to play guitar.  Either way, it'd be really awesome to strike some good luck playing with women.  No, not all women are timid or introverted.  But the ones who are just need someone as introverted as they are to bring out their musical talents.  Let's make music together!

5. I want to "be noticed", but not like for big projects.  I mean, I can do audio-video editing a little bit, I've dabbled in it, but it would be nice for someone to say, "You know, you do some really good work there, but I'll bet I could teach you a few things that will make your work GREAT!" & help tutor me on the finer things in audio/video editing.

6.  But mainly just to be able to go out & not feel so.... trapped.  Either because of the weather, or because I'm broke & the account is on empty, almost like my gas tank at the moment.

7. Which brings me to another point.  I want to be able to own a vehicle that is new enough that I don't have to worry about using blind spot mirrors since it has blind spot sensors to detect idiots that I can't see over my left shoulder, but I don't think I could say "No" to a new Camaro, or a Dodge Challenger.  Except for the winter, then I'd want either a Dodge or a Chevrolet truck.  Nothing big, but something that can tell Old Man Winter to fuck off if I had to go somewhere, like to go get mom if she needed help getting out to go get her stuff done, you know?

I really don't think I'm being greedy.  I think everything I just listed off is within reach as long as I stay true to my academic goals.  Perhaps, in time, I'll get there all on my own.  But I wouldn't say "No" to a little help along the way.  Especially when it comes to performing some of my favorite songs on either piano, guitar, or (yes, of course) the left-handed setup on the drums!  Or a right handed setup depending on the song. 

But again, I wouldn't say "No" to a little help along the way. 

LLAP! ⒿⓇⓀ✌

Not all blind men!

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/bby475/aita_for_getting_a_blind_student_kicked_out_of/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

I haven't seen or heard the details of the incident in question, but I do know this much from what I have inferred from the comments. 

First, not all blind men are like this.  Because more than 50% of my cousins are female whom I was fairly close to growing up & were the closest I had to sisters in my life, & especially two of which are daughters to one of those female cousins (May she RIP) whom I ❤ dearly, I don't dare do even half the shit that many of my male friends may have done prior to when I met my late cousin's two beautiful daughters who are now the lights of my life. 

So, I fully believe that someone's upbringing & their relationships with people both within their family clan, & with their female friends (if any), can heavily influence someone's behavior & mannerisms.  There are plenty of disturbed men out there who aren't blind and are still assholes, but when someone uses their disability to such a sinister advantage, it's not only uncool & creepy, it's either borderline straddling the legal limit, or downright against the law, full stop!

Secondly, all that being said, I would say that, since meeting my late cousin's two daughters, & having them in my life as a reminder that some things in life are worth fighting for, worth living for, that I've become concerned when I hear of stuff like this.  I am concerned for the women in my life including my remaining living female cousins both 1st & 2nd generations, my aunts, my (unrelated) niece, my mom even (that's a given), but especially those two lovely young ladies who have given me a most treasured nickname that I'm more than honored to have bestowed upon me. 

It would not bode well if I found out someone, regardless whether they have a legitimate disability, especially being vision-impaired or having partial or full blindness was taking advantage of any of the women in my life, i.e. family members/relatives and/or friends of mine, & were uncool to any of them!  It wouldn't bode well for that sumbitch idiot who abused their status as "disabled" to harass the women in my life, or worse. 

Unfortunately, the laws regarding "stalking" are not as strong as they should be.  Perhaps if male lawmakers were the victims of female stalkers, the laws would be changed to such a degree that it would end up a federal level felony if convicted.  The other unfortunate thing is that, knowing how male lawmakers think, if they did become victims of female stalkers, laws would be quite specific in singling out WOMEN stalkers.  Yes, that's right.  The men in Congress would conveniently not make a gender neutral law regarding creepy people.  Let's face it!  Congress, & to be more specific, republican men in Congress (both House & Senate) would make sure they are allowed to be fully creepy & disturbing, while making it clear they're not going to protect women, and would even go as far as to PROTECT the sinister men who creep out women to the max. 

Anything bad that happens to women especially when it's regarding a man who has done some fucked up shit are, in the minds of Republican men, the fault of women. 

Example:

Women: "I was raped!"

Republicans: "It's your fault.  You must have done something to provoke him!"

Women: "I was at home!"

Republicans: "You must've invited him!"

Women: "He was an intruder!"

Republicans: "He says you invited him.  That's good enough for me to protect an essentially innocent man against the word of a woman!"

Also:

Women: "This weirdo keeps calling me, heavy breathing into the phone, then hangs up!"

Republicans: "You must've given him your number!"

Women: "It's an unlisted phone line!"

Republicans: "But the phone company has your phone number.  Therefore, he must've gotten your number.  That means he's innocent!"

And.... :

Women: "My (ex)husband hit me repeatedly, and sexually assaulted our daughter!"

Republicans: "You must've provoked him, otherwise he wouldn't have had to defend himself!"

Women: "I was making him dinner!".

Republicans: "So, you were going to poison him!  All the more reason to protect him!"

Women: "He was dumbfucking drunk!"

Republicans: "So, he had one beer.  That doesn't make him violent, or a sex offender!"

Women: "But he RAPED our 12yr old daughter!"

Republicans: "She was probably dressed provocatively!"

Women: "TWELVE YEAR OLD DAUGHTER!"

Republicans: "But you both are his property.  You're supposed to do anything he says or does.  It's in the Bible.  Read your bible!"

Women: "HE HIT ME OVER THE HEAD WITH THE SCALDING HOT PAN I WAS COOKING HIS DINNER WITH, AND HE HAS REPEATEDLY SEXUALLY ASSAULTED OUR FUCKING DAUGHTER!"

Republicans: "So, what you're saying is that you were going to poison your (ex)husband, & that your daughter was being sexually promiscuous with him!"

Women: "That's not at all what I said, and you fucking know it!"

Republicans: "All I hear is that an innocent man was going to be poisoned, and that his daughter wanted to have sex with your husband!"

That!  That's that bullshit with Republicans.  They'll dismiss everything a woman says to protect their potential Republican voter & possible campaign donor.

I digress, I'm getting off-topic.  The point is that men who are acting dishonorably & highly inappropriately should be treated as hostile suspects & charged with criminal misconduct & mischief resulting in psychological torment & harassment.  The thing is that unless it happens to male lawmakers, or happening to straight men by obviously disturbed homosexual men, the laws won't change, and women everywhere are at the mercy of police who will follow the law to the letter, meaning they'll conveniently not investigate a stalker who is a borderline sociopath / psychopath that may turn ugly fast if not found, caught by law enforcement, & charged with a felony crime. 

But as for men who have disabilities of any sort who harass people, especially when it's a disabled man being inappropriate with women, it's totally uncool.  And again, it disturbs me when, as a blind man myself, I get labeled as something I'm not because some other idiot took advantage of being "not blind" blind & harassing people, and again especially women!

My days in late 2007 through mid 2008

From the desk of Jeffrey R. Kuntzelman 2019

From "Memories" on Facebook...

Honestly, I have no recollection of what exactly I did that was such a "FUBAR" event. Only thing I can think of is that I dropped an F-bomb on a customer. Of course, at the time in 2008, I was sleeping on a friend of my older brother's place, I was sleep deprived due to having sometimes only 2 or 3 hours of sleep every night, and then waking at 6am every morning, followed by being at work at 8am later in the morning, followed by waiting to start my shift at Sitel which would've been 11am. My shift would end around 6pm or 7pm. Then, because my brother often feels like he's the only one who has EVER worked a "real job", in his view, we all (roommates, my brother, etc) would listen to my brother gripe about his day. Often starting with "I had this one customer...." and as for the validity, or whether he was embellishing his stories (I believe it was the latter), he would babble on the whole night until 1 or 2am. This went on from November 2007 to about late April/May 2008. Which would lead me to an all-out venting to my brother, and subsequently having to be admitted to a hospital in May 2008, followed by my walking away from my job (figuratively & literally), which would then end up being the last job I worked over 10 years ago.

Whatever the "FUBAR" was, it probably was the catalyst for all of the events leading up to my eventual hospital visit, twice, and then losing my job. Not long afterward, I moved to Colorado to live with mom, and that was a rough couple of years at first.

Still, though, I don't remember at all what the "FUBAR" was, but I'm glad I'm not in that type of work anymore. Now, I just want to focus my efforts on becoming a musician. To what degree or extent is yet to be determined, but regardless, the events of late 2007 through almost mid-2008 made me realize my brother is an asshole!  And not just an asshole, but one who is aware of his narcissism, and sometimes enjoys it.  Like a sociopath.  Probably gaslighting people in his path, including yours truly.  

When my mother wants to bring up anything regarding my brother, I instantly become anxious.  I tell her I don't want to talk about my brother about anything related to his ... life or lifestyle.  My therapist believes that my reaction to my mother bringing up my older sibling, describing my inability to trust people as a result of being harassed & bullied from K through 12 (right up to HS graduation day June 11th, 1998), my surviving abuse of all kinds as a child, are all what she considers consistent with PTSD.  

Anyway, the FUBAR incident is something I must've blocked out.  I can't recall anything about that day.  Of course, because I had no real outlet to vent, and I didn't have my journals to write in, either online or manual pen/pencil & paper (which I've hidden, because nobody will get to read that shit when I leave this world several decades from now), I don't have any record that can give me clues to what it was.  I'm fairly certain it was the incident in which I was "randomly selected" for a drug test, and when I was told "You popped positive for codeine!", I was furious with Sitel at that, because it was part of my prescription pain killer medication.  I was suspended for 3 days for something that I was legally taking at the direction of my primary doctor.

I'm so very lucky I walked away from that job.  I had fantasized about bashing in my brother's head with a frying pan.  He often came home so blitzed out of his fucking mind, he wouldn't have seen it coming or had time to react.  I'm glad I didn't carry out that fantasy, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't have nights where I was really considering it.

At this point, though, I wish I could go back to early 2003, and help get my doctors to start thinking outside the box with their pain management methods.  I wish I would have considered removing my eye much sooner, like around 2003/2004-ish.  Finding out there were indications of detached retina, chronic and acute hemorrhaging, and the baerveldt implants for my glacuoma being too big for the eye were part of the reason I was consistently having days & nights filled with such awfully severe pain.  And very little compassion from my older brother didn't help me at all.

Remember, according to my older brother, NOBODY works harder or as hard as my older brother.  Nobody has a job worse than his job.  And of course, when it came to my work, my job, he didn't believe I did ANYTHING close to what he might consider "hard work", because again, NOBODY works as hard as my older brother.  

Just thinking about that year doesn't give me any "happy thoughts".  It's hard to not want to have a "mental health day" where I accept that I have deep feelings that can't be simply "cried away".  The only way I can ever get better is if someone does the one thing I know that they'll never do.  Apologize!

And even if he/she offered the apology, I have strongly held doubts that they'd ever be sincere.  And would I be willing to accept it at all?  Probably not.  The urge to punch my brother in the face multiple times might be overwhelming.

*sigh*

Some things just shouldn't have gone the way that they did in 2007 and 2008.  I honestly feel that year(s) had been the start of my decline in health, especially my physical health, my emotional health, and my mental health, and not having access to mental health resources were a challenge in Southern Nevada, especially in Las Vegas, NV, and not having access to social outlets to let me vent more often also didn't help me one bit.

This, among other times in my life, are the reason I wish I could go back in time, change events in my life, and seriously violate the Temporal Prime Directive.  I'd violate the shit out of it!

The Era of Trumpism Will Fall... someday!

I want it stated for the record that 1) I've been anti-Trump before it was cool, also 2) I don't support many of the policies that Trump has put into place especially the ones that are inherently divisive, & some of which I've called as "Crimes against humanity" when his regime/administration separated illegal immigrant children from their families at the border.  Regardless of their legal status & residency, it is NEVER okay to take children away from parents.  Ever! 

Finally, some Trumpsters & Trump loyalists would say "You've never given him a chance!  You need to give him a chance!".... uh, no!  No, I don't need to do jack shit.  Trump's heart is not one of love, of compassion, or even mildly good.  The moment he mocked a disabled American journalist is when he lost any & all respect from me, personally.  Not that he'd care, anyway, but that one moment is what made me lose any respect I had for Trump.  And there wasn't much left to begin with.  His supporters say, "But he does it to everyone he knows!"  That just makes Trump look like a bigger asshole than before.  "But that didn't really happen!" Some Trumpsters would say.  In response, I did witness it on LIVE broadcast television.  This was not a "reality"-based series, this was a moment captured on live TV broadcast, totally unedited & unscripted.  I know what it is that I saw with my one good eye.  Hard to miss shit like that when it occurs. 

Even the more recent live broadcast of when Jim Acosta was being cut short (because Trump didn't like the question), while a Trump intern tried taking away the microphone, & Trump then banning Acosta from the WH press corps, all happened in real-time.  Not scripted like Trumpsters & Trump loyalists would have us believe otherwise.  All of this, and much more, are mere examples of the trend of Trumpism.  It seems to be a defining characteristic that if someone, say Trump himself, had done something awful, he has defenders & sympathizers who say it didn't really happen.  Then, they'll say "Maybe it did happen, but it's not a big deal!", then onward to "Maybe it's a big deal, but it's not illegal!", and finally, "Maybe it's illegal, but it's not wrong!"

When the fuck does being a sexist, racist, xenophobic, bigoted prick become "wrong"?  Where is the line drawn when Trump goes "too low" for comfort?  He's on record saying he could shoot someone in public, & he wouldn't lose any votes.  So, he could attempt murder, and what?  His supporters (Trumpsters & Trump loyalists) don't mind a murderous president?  That.... is awful.  That's also highly unorthodox, and also quite frightening knowing that both Trump & his supporters don't mind killing people who may or may not disagree with them on any one subject.

That's a criminal mindset.  It's also the hallmark of a dictatorship in the making.  Or as I like to call the Trump regime/administration, a "dictatorship-in-training" by Trump's dictatorship mentor Vladmir Putin, President of the Russian government.  All of that is the reason I resist Trumpism as much as I can.  I'm always anti-Trump & anti-Trumpism, but lately it's been getting tiresome.  No, I don't think I'll ever sink to the lows of Trumpism, but it seems like unless I post daily about being anti-Trump, people tend not to listen.  Trumpism among Trumpsters & Trump loyalists would want us to quit, because "resistance is futile", but I'm here to stay & reaffirm that "Resistance is NOT futile" when it comes to resisting Trump's actions, policies, political affiliations & operations, etc.

But....

When will we see an end to the Era Of Trumpism? I don't think it will ever be truly iradicated completely from mindsets of the right & alt-right. Especially when many Trumpsters & Trump Loyalists have future generations, and are teaching their younglings the fundamental principles of hate, of racism, of bigotry, of xenophobia while making it seem like it's all right with their Jesus & their God. Which, in of itself, is a very scary thought. It feels like we've been abandoning reason, logic, & especially compassion for our fellow American citizens, our fellow human beings, but most importantly we tend to forget a basic rule. "Do unto others how you want to be treated!" Sounds simple enough, until you get to Trump!

The Trump Crime Family aka the Trump KKKlan, as well as the entire Trump Regime (aka Trump administration) & the GOP entirely are a reminder that there are some people who wouldn't know kindness even if it bit them in the ass like a damn German shepherd canine, or a shark. Unless you're their constituents, and you've sworn a loyalty oath of fealty to his Majesty Donald Trump & the Trump dynasty. But that's only the scratch of the surface to a much larger problem.

Granted, Republikkkans, including Trumpsters & Trump Loyalists, have been at this racist, bigoted mindset for years, even decades! Now, though, we're starting to see some Democrats & Anti-Trumpism folks being just as bad, if not worse, than the Republikkkans involved in the expansion of Trumpism.  It's beginning to feel like NO ONE is safe from being scrutinized by the public.  Even people who truly have the best interests of ALL Americans everywhere are not necessarily the people we would want in our homes on a personal level.

But truth be told, anybody is better than Trump.  Especially when he has repeatedly shown the people his true colors.  Mocking disabled Americans, demeaning to women, constantly claiming not to be racist yet exclaims like Hell that we're being flooded with Mexican illegal immigrants & that they're the reason he wants a Wall at our southern border, & constantly lies on a pace unparalleled by any of his predecessors.  He seems to have the mindset that he can do no wrong (the same mindset is within his supporter base, the Trumpsters & Trump loyalists), can break any law he wishes, & usurp our country's Constitution at every turn. 

Which is why this fight against Trumpism has been the most mentally exhausting thing to have to do as a United States citizen.  Of course, I've never liked Trump, & there are very few Republicans ("Republikkkans") that I could say I have faith in, save one at the moment.  Robert Mueller III is among the small number of Republican men whom I'd like to see succeed in bringing down the biggest case of high-profile treason involving collusion with a foreign government, in this instance Russia & president Putin, & bring to justice one Donald Trump & his entire Trump crime syndicate including his adult children.

Especially Jared Kushner for having illegal contacts with Russian agents whose goals were to install their choice of person for OUR country's government, especially the highest elected office, the President of the United States.  Trump claims it's all a witch hunt, but in the next breath, wants to see Hillary Clinton investigated (yet again), "...because her emails!"  This is not a real winner.  This is what we call a "sore winner", borderline dictator who wants to jail his critics, his current & potential future political opponents, his business rivals, & of course anyone who might have any disagreements with his policies which are what I'd consider highly unConstitutional. 

Trump's illegitimate presidency is a reminder that we need to hold our elected representatives to a higher standard.  To hold them accountable, & make sure they're ALL aware that they're NOT ABOVE THE LAW!  Which Trump claims to cherish, until the law is eyeballing him & his co-conspirators in their mission to commit treason, which is a serious crime, & a complete violation of Trump's oath of office.  Lying while under that oath should be an impeachable offense all its own.  It WAS an impeachable offense back in the late 1990's when the Republican-led Congress at the time drafted Articles of Impeachment against President Bill Clinton for lying about his sex affair with Monica Lewinsky.  For LYING about his sexual relationship with Monica Lewinsky.  Let that sink in for a moment.  He lied about it, & was impeached but NOT convicted of any serious crime (except he did get censured by the Senate). Trump has lied about many things including about his own ties to Russia, to Putin, but denies it even when evidence to the contrary is being collected to use against the Traitor-in-Chief himself.

Yet, if you ask Senator "Kentucky Fried Chickenshit" Mitch McConnell, he would probably say some bullshit like how it's un-American to not be loyal to a president.  That it's "un-patriotic" to be anti-Trump.  Which is absolutely absurd.  My loyalties are, like many other Americans, with the United States, & not with a specific elected representative, i.e. the president.  My duties are to country, not a president.  That SHOULD be McConnell's priority, not submitting to Trump's every whim like he's a king. 

Let me reiterate something that NEEDS to be said:  Trump IS NOT A KING!  Nor should he be, ever!  He's on record as saying there should be a president for life.  The 22nd amendment is pretty clear on this.  A person can only be elected twice to president.  The amendment was ratified shortly after FDR's terms.  We got very lucky with him as our country's president during the Great Depression & WW2 (World War II).  It is because of the inherent dangers in having a "President for life" such as having someone LIKE TRUMP be in office that shouldn't be there to begin with.

It goes without saying that these last few years have been a roller coaster ride for those of us in The Resistance (to Trumpism), having the up's and downs of watching this regime (administration) attempt to undo the last 50 yrs of progressive policies toward making America even greater than before.  Trump would have us believe he's going to "Make America Great Again" (MAGA), which to him & his "Trumpsters" & "Trump Loyalists" means going back to pre-"Civil Rights" era, pre-"It's illegal & discouraged to be sexists!", pre-"We can't have racism rule our country!", & pre-"globalism" (because being an isolationist country in the early years of the 20th century worked so well for Americans until our complacency got us sucked into World War I).

When Trump announced he wants a wall, wants to abolish NAFTA & re-negotiate a "New NAFTA", & continually is very specific on how he wants these things done, I wonder to myself, as should ALL Americans, "What is Trump looking to gain?"  He is certainly NOT "Making America Great Again" when the things he's attempting to do are, in some way, benefitting both himself & his Trump KKKlan.  Which is why I believe this Border Wall idea of his is a scam.  He wants taxpayers to foot the bill (even after he said during his campaign that Mexico would pay for it), and I have to wonder if he's got someone, some companies in mind for the Wall construction effort.  Companies that may end up giving Trump billions. 

Which begs an even greater, more important question to the table: How much does Trump owe Putin?  Is there both a monetary value as well as "something else" that's owed?  Nobody, not one president before Trump has ever publicly kissed the ass of Russia (metaphorically-speaking).  It is a borderline submission disorder, catering to Putin's whims like Trump is merely Putin's puppet, or his "puppy" that will bark when Putin says "Speak!" Or Trump jumps when Putin snaps his fingers. 

Between the two of them, plus Kim Jong Un in N. Korea, I'm terrified that these men will undoubtedly spark WW3 (World War III), & if anyone is alive afterwards, they'll blame anyone else they can.  Because taking personal responsibility seems like a foreign concept to Trump & co.

But this whole thing with resisting Trump & resisting Trumpism has been awfully tiresome.  Right now, I'd be happy as a clam if a single living Republican Senator and/or House representative spoke out in opposition to Trump & his policies.  Just one.  Unfortunately, they're all complicit.  They are not even bothering to hide it.  Yet, whatever they've done publicly that is worse than the day before, they'll spin it & claim Democrats/liberals are exactly what they (GOP) themselves are guilty of, and it doesn't matter that almost all of it is untrue.  They're all hoping their constituency is uninterested in researching anything they claim. 

The goal of Republicans are to make sure if they're guilty of something, blame the opposite side entirely.  Their ulterior motive is to make sure their constituents aren't as informed as their counterparts in Congress, because an informed constituent never votes for a racist, xenophobic, bigoted, "white nationalist" into office.  The only reason some Republicans are still in office is because some of their constituents aren't interested in researching facts, especially "alternative facts", to check their validity. 

A complacent voter is a Republican voter.  Never be complacent.

That said, I'm tired of trying to keep up with Trump & his brand of bullshit Trumpism.  It's not that I don't care, but rather I'm tired of trying to get others to see what I'm seeing, through the eyes of a blind man (myself), & making their own decisions on who to put their faith into.  Simply put, I don't put faith into people anymore.  Especially if they're a member of the most racist political party ever in the history of political parties.  Save ONE Republican who is the Special Counsel to investigate the "Trump-Russia Collusion & Treason" scandal.  I hope that man succeeds in bringing down a corrupt Trump regime, & that we see Trump escorted from the White House in handcuffs, preferably with Trump himself kicking & screaming all the way across the White House front lawn.

A blind man can dream, can he not?  If it were up to Trump & Trump's KKKlan, he'd outright ban having thoughts and dreams about his abrupt end in politics.  Thank goodness that, for the moment, Trump is NOT above the law, and not above Congress as a co-equal branch of our country's Constitutional government.

Can't vs. won't

I like how on my patient portal, my doctor writes "patient refuses to change diet".  Even after I explained how I have severe food restrictions.  One of which is that I've got food and that it's not a matter of "won't change", as much as it is "CAN'T change" my food intake.  I can make small adjustments, but not anything significant.

If it had been my regular primary care doctor, he would've known about my food problems, & wouldn't have made it an issue as he knows my medical history inside and out.  This lady doesn't seem to understand that distinction of "can't" vs. "won't".  I *can't* eat certain foods or else I get violently sick.  Even [certain individual] doesn't quite get this hard fact.

After having tried multiple times to eat "normal", I gave up since every time I tried had the same result.  I get violently sick.  It's not something I want to do every day, getting violently sick repeatedly in the name of "eating healthy".  I won't put my body through any unnecessary stress due to dietary restrictions. 

If you will not ask then you do not know!

When people make stupid ass assumptions about others, especially when they don't ask about something they're curious about, I can't help but wonder if that person is well, an idiot.  I don't enjoy it when others whisper behind my back, or snicker, or decide that I haven't the need for something.  Or the means.  It irks me!  Why does it irk me?  When someone reads something I've posted, then decides to make their own conclusions about what I'm doing, why I'm doing it, and more importantly how I'm doing it, then it becomes an issue that's not an issue at all, especially if those same people making their own conclusions don't ask a simple question, "How?"

Example.

A few weeks ago, I posted on my family FB account expressing an interest in an Xbox One or PS4 game that happens to teach players how to play guitar.  How well it works is not the question.  Later on, actually this last week, I get scolded by my mother (while I'm physically a fucking adult, this is her mind at work) that I should be careful what I post on MY page.

The problem is this:  I can't be held liable for what somebody in my family doesn't understand.  Say, like, how I got said game, or whether I had the actual money to buy it.  Or even, how I came to find it in the first place, or rather how I know about it.  My mother claims, as though I care, that she believed it looked as though I said I had bought the game outright, and in her mind this represents that I have money or have disposable cash to pay back a certain family member, despite my attempts at wording things very carefully.  Below is a screen shot of that post.  If anyone can tell me how a family member, according to mom, could infer, without asking me how I got it or how I came across it, how I had it in my possession, or even for how long.  My response could have been, "I got it from the library!", but no!  According to mom, anyone can make a stupid ass assumption, but don't actually know shit!

I don't know why anytime my mother says shit like this, I get irked!  It's like a fucking time bomb in my head (metaphorically speaking) that blows up like tonight when the thought occurred.  Specifically the thought, "Why am I responsible for what others don't understand, never ask about, or inquire why I'm interested!  It's not as though people talk to me much anymore!"

*SIGH*

I hate it when she does stupid shit like that to me, and all in the attempt to limit what I post, as though I give a fuck what someone in my family thinks they know about me.  It's not like we speak to each other on a regular basis, or even infrequently.  Not unless "His Majesty" has a problem with his fucking computer, and honestly, I don't even know why I help him.  Maybe because I think he might return the favor someday, or maybe because I'm just a good family member.  Or maybe, because of how awful & terrible they treated me in the past, I know how much of a narcissist they are, and that that won't remember it anyway.  

Still, mom irks me.  To death, I might add.  Why the fuck I listen to her anymore, I don't know.

~JRK 2018